to the extent that it’s no longer considered disrespectful to use them.

Don’t fret too much, there is an entire generation (possibly two) of children being indoctrinated in this CSJT bullshit and attempting to find offense everywhere. Most of them are upper middle class, white, and looking to be a white knight for people they view as the lesser. They disguise this by calling people who use terms like this “racist” or “sexist” and plaster them with ism’s.