This article is incredibly one sided. What do you believe are the responsibilities of the woman in a relationship? You come off as if you believe the man has ALL of the responsibility to “change”. It’s honestly very annoying. You use this word “equality” but it doesn’t sound like you understand what it means in a relationship. Does the man in a monogamous relationship carry the burden of righting all of the wrongs of all other men, of “society”? That’s what it sounds like you expect.