Meanwhile, if you are familiar with the dating exploits of some of Medium’s most popular female relationship writers, the women are seeing “hundreds of men” in a year or two. The disparity is staggering. We’ve been commoditized. I know for a fact there are women out there that feel the same way. But the fact that there is even an opportunity for some people to go one dozens of dates monthly and still not find “Mr. Right” speaks volumes.