I’ve had the opposite experience. 30 year olds who have only been out of college for five or six years, have had zero to one “serious relationships” that lasted less than a year and think they know what they are looking for. They have tended to be driven by allowing FOMO and other social pressure run their lives. They keep gorgeous homes to the untrained eye, but it’s all for show, open up the cabinets and closets and everything is disheveled. It feels as if everything is for appearances only, Instagram lives, nothing deeper than skin deep, it’s all superficial.

30 years old going on 20.