Its not that “getting more sex” is the ultimate goal. The goal is probably to find someone to fall in love with but as Jodie stated, if a man doesn’t open with sexual advances, the odds of getting placed into those over categories like the friend-zone increase greatly. This is because the same women that claim they are looking for the “conversationalist” are constantly falling for the sexual advances of the more aggressive men because its literally written into their biology to do so. There is no other option if you want to stand a chance in becoming romantic with her. You “open” with the very clear intentions of being intimate and move from there.